Sunday 10 July 2011

HOW TO COME OUT OF DEPRESSION AND LOVE FAILURE




step 7; getting involved in new things..going out with friends...going for a holiday with friends,family...taking up a project...

in love failures a few realize after a certain time that, there are people who are worrying about them so they should leave all those behind and take a step forward..but there are a few who spoil their life to the extend that they never realize what they are up to and what their loved one's might suffer because of them... lucky are the people who can overcome because they are the one's who really know the pain of true love...

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STEP 8;

imagine the negative points of that person and wonder how difficult life would have been if you were to stick to that person life time.


immediately latch on to a new friend and forget the one which is gone.


Never,never attempt to contact by phone or mail. they will treat you nasty and you will be in worst situation. just ignore the past


STEP 9;
First Take out a phrase from ur brain:"I cant live without her".U can forget her.
At first it will be like sleeping in a bed of thorns... very difficult.... but practice to be with it.. let ur mind always say she is not urs... there r lot of other girls and she is unlucky to have missed a guy like u.turn ur attention to ur favourite things such as sports,music,books..something which u love to do... don't be alone..hang out with friends whom always talk to u... and who makes u laugh..even stay in friends home during nights... and tell ur close friends how much u loved her..share it..u will feel better...first it will be difficult to share..but later it will be ok... go look out for lots of girls.. a whole world is waiting for us man...enjoy life..why to waste time for the one who don't even think about us... live for yourself..dnt restrict ur life to single girl...

THINKING IN THIS WAY MIGHT BE USEFUL TO COME OUT FROM LOVE FAILURE.


STEP10;
If you trust me... try falling in love with someone else... or something else? Find a new partner or discover a new passion and follow it. Life is about moving on. As they say, "Never cry over spilled milk." For what stops... is dead.
Cheer up... live life.


STEP11;

stop thinking of it...keep yourself busy and happy...
think of other good things in your life...
it helps...really...!

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STEP12;
Change ur concentration towards friends or into busy activity. Don't worry one angel will be waiting for u. find her.


STEP13;

1. You never 'FORGET' someone, you just 'ACCEPT' that they are no longer a part of your life.
2. Whatever reason you two broke up(I presume the girl is married to someone else or is in a committed relationship), don't bad mouth about the relationship failure.It DOES NOT help.
3. Very honestly ask yourself what mistakes you made in the failure of the relationship. Understand them and never repeat them in the future.
4. This is a very good chance for you to excel in your career and save some money for the future.


'It is NOT LOVE FAILURE if you learn from your mistakes and promise not to repeat them'


5.Make sure that before the next time you are in a relationship you are more strong mentally, emotionally and financially.Become a better human being.
6.Love is hard work friend. Committed relationship then marriage then raising kids together. Love lasts entire lifetime. Work hard for love. Before that build a successful career.
Love is INCOMPLETE if you are not successful career wise.


What do you do when you fail in an examination?


You learn which topics you got less marks. You work harder on those topics. You study harder, for more number of hours. The next time with complete efforts you give the exam.You then not only pass but also get a high score.


That is how you deal with love, actually that's how you deal with everything

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Think objectively